“Say what?” the man in the booth asked the woman. The mic he speaks into muffles his voice and the words come out garbled.
“Say what?” she asked. The words from her end come out garbled. It’s not the best of mics.
Neither heard everything the other said. Isn’t that like life these days? How much do we hear from another person? Before you know it, we’ve jumped to all sorts of conclusions. If this example of two strangers throwing their words at each other proves anything, it proves maybe we are losing our hearing. Unlike our ancestors.
Our ancestors heard everything. They had to. It was pure survival. But isn’t listening required for a good relationship. We get to the point with our partner that we think we already know what they will say. We’ve heard the pattern of the conversation from their end for so long that it has embedded into our brain. No wonder we have gone to texting.
Perhaps this is what hell is like. We approach someone there and we ask a question. Our voice is so muffled that the other person can’t understand us. “Say what?” they say.
“Say what?” we respond, thinking if we could only text. Our fingers are going crazy, making the motions of texting. Maybe. Maybe not.
If we could only listen. If we would only listen. Unfortunately there is so much noise going on in our brain. If haiku has taught me anything, it’s taught me this. How little I listen.
Oh, sure. I hear. My hearing ain’t that bad.
So what happens to the woman and the man in the ticket booth behind the glass at the train station? Or at the gas station?
The woman, instead of getting angry, stops and thinks, then she slows down her words and gives them voice. She smiles and says, “When’s the next drawing?”
The man behind the glass gets it. “At eleven tonight.”
She slips him a five-dollar bill. “One quick pick.”
Finally, he understands. The two of them have adjusted the tone of their voices to the mic and to the listener. He prints her a ticket and slides it through the window with her change.
She smiles, turns and walks away, putting the ticket to her dreams into her pocket.
A man, in his thirties, comes to the booth, asks when the next drawing will be.
“Say what?” the man behind the glass asks.
Thirty shakes his head and walks off. He’ll go elsewhere, perhaps to one of those vending machines for lottery tickets.